A Word to the Young...

“Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity.” – 1 Timothy 4:12

“Young” is a relative term and means different “ages” in different situations.  However, at 26, and compared to those I work with/interact with/talk to, I consider myself young…well and the fact that “young” is my last name, ha ha.  Many times, and throughout my own life, we come across situations and experiences that we are deemed “too young” to take part.  “Too young”…those are hard words to hear, especially when it’s something that you would like to do/want to have experience in doing and know you would be good at and enjoy.

Obviously for situations like riding a rollercoaster or driving a car, individuals are too young for safety reasons.  Conversely, for situations like teaching a class or speaking in front of a group of older individuals, young people are less likely to have these opportunities because they may not have the wisdom or knowledge to do these things.  As I’m not a daredevil, my “too young” experiences have been in this second example that I have just presented. 

I definitely agree with the rationale that I don’t have as much knowledge or experience as someone who is older.  A 26 year old hasn’t experienced life like a 56 year old.  However, knowing who I am, what I’ve done in my “young” life, what I like to do, and what I’m good at, I know that I have the potential to do a great job and learn a lot about myself if I had the opportunity and experience of being able to take part in a particular event/class/situation.

“Young” people, let me speak to you first. 

1 Timothy is Paul’s letter to a pastor named Timothy.  He was considered a youngster compared to others in his community/area and we know this because of how Paul encourages him in 1 Timothy 4:12.  Paul says to Timothy, “Don't let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity.”  Basically Paul is saying, “I know people are telling you that you can’t do this and you can’t do that, but don’t listen to them.  You know your heart; you know you’re following God’s Will.  Show others that this is what God’s designed you to do and show them by how you live your life.”  There are a good number of other examples from the Bible about individuals who made a Godly difference when they were young…Joseph, Samuel, a young David, Jeremiah, Josiah, Esther, and the apostle John…just to name a few.  Young men and women who lived Godly lives and went on to accomplish great things for God…many during their “younger” years.

Young person (and I'm speaking to myself too)…we know in our hearts and through much prayer and guidance from the Father and those who we trust (a parent or mentor) that God has destined us to be involved in certain areas that mean something special to us.  Sometimes it may be hard for those outside our realm of closeness to realize that we indeed would be a great asset or addition to their particular ministry or area because they feel that we may be too young to be successful at it.  Paul, however, offers us some help!  Set an example.  Set an example in the way you act, speak, live, behave, move, decide, walk…I think you know where I’m going.  As young people, we have to prove ourselves…but not boastfully or sarcastically, rather through living as Christ.  We may have to do grunt work or things that we don’t necessarily want to do, but by doing these things in a timely manner and with a positive attitude, it shows others that we have what it takes to be a great asset to their team.

Living a Christ-like life shows maturity beyond your years and can really intrigue those who may be skeptical.  I love what God told the young prophet Jeremiah because it shows us that God has indeed called us as young people to do what He has designed us to do.  God says, “I knew you before I formed you in your mother’s womb.  Before you were born I set you apart” (Jeremiah 1:5).  God designed you for a purpose.  Don’t let age stop you from fulfilling it.

“Seasoned” individuals, I have a word for you too!

Be willing to take a chance on us young folks.  Yes, we’re still learning the ropes of life, but we have a lot to offer the world.  We have energy, excitement, and lots of enthusiasm… especially about something we are passionate about.  We can be great advocates and supporters.  We may make a few mistakes along the way, but we will learn from them and know never to make that same mistake again.  We can even inspire our peers and even those younger to be involved in your particular area or ministry thereby increasing your workforce!

I wouldn’t be as involved in children’s ministry today if it wasn’t for an amazing mentor from Alabama who took a chance on a “misfit-middle-schooler” and let me become involved in children’s church on Sundays showing me that I have a love for teaching kids the Truth.  I wouldn’t have the media responsibilities at church today if it wasn’t for two dear ladies who taught me how to use the TV graphics equipment in our church media room, thereby inspiring me to become involved in all things media ministry.  All of these individuals took a chance on me and singled out gifts I never knew I had.  I’m forever grateful for that. 

Jesus said in Matthew 19:14, “Let the children [young people] come to me. Don’t stop them! For the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to such as these.”  We are the next generation…teach us, inspire us, encourage us, and mold us into workers for the Kingdom so that we can do the same for those that come after us.

I absolutely love it when the young AND old can come together and serve God in unity.  As believers, we are brothers and sisters in Christ and we have a lot of gifts, experience, and knowledge to offer each other.  Our age should never be a factor in teaching, serving, reaching, or going.  God’s called us all…young and old…to great things, we just have to be ready and willing to do what He’s called us to do.  Take a chance, step out on faith, live as Christ, and be amazed at the journey on which God takes you!